I’ve always believed that each one of, us no matter how affluent or broke, how busy or jobless we are, have it in us to make this happen. Before you begin to wonder about what I’d say to make a difference to the society, please note that there are many out there who could do mighty great with just a little help from our part.
Honestly, I wanted to do something worthwhile during my semester break. An internship with an NGO was definitely on my mind, but I never thought I would land up as an intern this quickly, but I sure am glad it did, and I’m grateful to U&I for the same. “U&I” is much more than just an NGO where it’s all work and work up to a point where everything just gets plain monotonous. I realized this on the very first day of my internship, (though I haven’t been turning up at office quite regularly).
Children, as most of us are aware, are lively, crazy and perhaps one of the most beautiful creatures on Planet Earth ( or at least I’d like to believe it to be that way) . They have this unique aura around them which is truly inexplicable until you get close to them, that is. I’m not necessarily a great child lover. In fact, the noisy, hyper active ones could be horribly difficult to be around with, I agree.I mean it. So kudos to all those volunteers who actually go through the regular process of teaching English and computer classes to this group of wonderful kids - I honestly think you're brilliant! "U&I” taught me, and has made me realize that I must thank God for the normalcy I have in my life. Yes, not everyone around is as lucky as we are, and somewhere down the line we all know it although we don’t acknowledge it on a daily basis. If we all did, we all would have surely made a difference and the world would have been a much better place for everyone. But wait, I’m not getting into that for that is not the aim of the blog. I just want to make you see what I see,is all.
Volunteering is a great thing - Interning ,even better. I mean, wouldn’t you want to get an insight into how people who are perhaps just half our age struggle with their day-to-day living? And isn't it amazing how just a little active participation from each one of us (even you, since you’re reading this) could indeed make a difference to all these wonderful beings that deserve a life as convenient and full of opportunities like ours?
It’s not difficult. I realized it.
So if you're ready for a memorable experience,you certainly know where to head!=)
Think ahead. Think different ; for you too could make a difference!
On this note,here's wishing you a abso-flippin'-utely Happy New Year!
-Pooja Prabhan
Saturday, December 31, 2011
CHILD LABOUR
While I was walking down this street all by myself,
I met this kid, who came running towards me,
Initially I thought he was scared by the dog that was chasing him
But there was more to it,
On further questioning this kid told me that he was running away from his master’s place,
A place where he was forced to work.
A place where they’d beat him up and burn him when he asked for food.
This poor little kid was 7 years old,
His mother died long ago,
His father was a drunkard, a man who no kid would want to call his own.
He was scared, thirsty and hungry as hell.
Just then I took him to this place where he could eat and quench his thrist ,
He never let my hand go free.
He held it with force, he was scared, that poor soul.
He cried and insisted me to take him to a place where he’ll feel safe,
A place where his master could never find him
He was horrified, how can a man be so rude to a 7 year old?
This kid made me cry.
Studies & various reports quote:
Child labour is a concrete manifestation of violations of a range of rights of children and is recognised as a serious and enormously complex social problem in India. Working children are denied their right to survival and development, education, leisure and play, and adequate standard of living, opportunity for developing personality, talents, mental and physical abilities, and protection from abuse and neglect. Notwithstanding the increase in the enrolment of children in elementary schools and increase in literacy rates since 1980s, child labour continues to be a significant phenomenon in India.
Concerned about the future of its children India has implemented a country- wide ban recently, on children below fourteen working in the hospitality sector and as domestics. It is intended that those who are found to violate the law will be fined with 430 dollars and sent into rigorous imprisonment for two years. Children in India are not allowed to work in mines, factories and other hazardous jobs already. Two more professions have been added in a list of fifty seven occupations which were considered hazardous for a child’s development needs in the ‘child labour act’ passed in 1986.Childs rights activists are waxing eloquent in high pitched voices about the absolute importance of stopping child labour. But legislation in this regard is just like an intention. It is more important to take development measures to ensure its practical application by eliminating the reasons of child labour from our society. The reasons giving birth to child labour are poverty, illiteracy, scarcity of schools, ignorance, socially regressive practices, blind customs and traditions, migration and last but not the least corruption amongst employees and government labour organizations. People should not be able to get away with employing and exploiting children.
-Purvasha Mansharamani
I met this kid, who came running towards me,
Initially I thought he was scared by the dog that was chasing him
But there was more to it,
On further questioning this kid told me that he was running away from his master’s place,
A place where he was forced to work.
A place where they’d beat him up and burn him when he asked for food.
This poor little kid was 7 years old,
His mother died long ago,
His father was a drunkard, a man who no kid would want to call his own.
He was scared, thirsty and hungry as hell.
Just then I took him to this place where he could eat and quench his thrist ,
He never let my hand go free.
He held it with force, he was scared, that poor soul.
He cried and insisted me to take him to a place where he’ll feel safe,
A place where his master could never find him
He was horrified, how can a man be so rude to a 7 year old?
This kid made me cry.
Studies & various reports quote:
Child labour is a concrete manifestation of violations of a range of rights of children and is recognised as a serious and enormously complex social problem in India. Working children are denied their right to survival and development, education, leisure and play, and adequate standard of living, opportunity for developing personality, talents, mental and physical abilities, and protection from abuse and neglect. Notwithstanding the increase in the enrolment of children in elementary schools and increase in literacy rates since 1980s, child labour continues to be a significant phenomenon in India.
Concerned about the future of its children India has implemented a country- wide ban recently, on children below fourteen working in the hospitality sector and as domestics. It is intended that those who are found to violate the law will be fined with 430 dollars and sent into rigorous imprisonment for two years. Children in India are not allowed to work in mines, factories and other hazardous jobs already. Two more professions have been added in a list of fifty seven occupations which were considered hazardous for a child’s development needs in the ‘child labour act’ passed in 1986.Childs rights activists are waxing eloquent in high pitched voices about the absolute importance of stopping child labour. But legislation in this regard is just like an intention. It is more important to take development measures to ensure its practical application by eliminating the reasons of child labour from our society. The reasons giving birth to child labour are poverty, illiteracy, scarcity of schools, ignorance, socially regressive practices, blind customs and traditions, migration and last but not the least corruption amongst employees and government labour organizations. People should not be able to get away with employing and exploiting children.
-Purvasha Mansharamani
Wednesday, November 9, 2011
My Story - Divya David
In retrospect,the reasons behind my joining as an intern in U&I were based solely on practical grounds,which don't even figure in my head anymore.
I wanted to intern; I wanted to intern in an NGO; I wanted to intern in an NGO that was within an accessible and communicable geographical
space ; I wanted super-fun crowd ; I wanted an NGO who's policy was honesty ;I wanted flexi timings, yadayadayada...the list was never ending.
Needless to say, U&I fit my bill perfectly.
Question was,and still is:did I fit U&I's bill?
Well,I still don't know! I have never in my life seen an organisation and it's people so dynamically evolve. I have never in my life come across so much passion,
so much love,and so much energy in one place. When I joined U&I,what drove me to it may have been reasons I could list out in bullet points in my personal diary, but the change it has made in my life, and the change I know I have made in the lives of others, is far too pregnant with weight for words to contain. I first started out with teaching slum-dwelling boys from Doddigunta at the U&I office. They were noisy,were more interested in my love life than anything else,and drove me mad. They also made me see the mind - boggling amounts of potential each and every one of them was brimming with,and that drove me to want to make something out of them. Today,I work with slum-dwelling girls from Doddigunta. Predictably enough, for obvious socio-economical reasons,they are far lesser in number. It also means that they do not receive as much encouragement to study,and have far lesser incentives to intellectually and academically further their horizons,making it more of a challenge for me to teach. But you know what I see in each and every one of these girls? I see possibilities. Given where they come from,and given their little academic escapades from their squalid reality, the possibilities in their future are endless. They could either become somebodies/exceptions from what is predicted of their future,or they could be washed away to become victims of their own fate,and not conversely, its victors. Yes I am teaching them Spoken English today,and that is a sure-shot tool to uplift them,albeit a little higher,from their current state, but my main aim is to make real women out of them. Strong, independent, and empowered women. Women who will be change-makers and history makers.
Whenever I meet people working with U&I,I see the same dreams and hopes in their eyes for whichever section of people they may be working with. I sense not just their aspirations and energy, but above all else,their Hope. I also know that this isn't the passive sort of hope,but the one that strives, strives, and never yields. The one that fights the good fight. This same hope is the one that drives me,and I see that regardless of the numerous constraints all of us may have,there is always room to make a difference. There's always need for a helping hand. There's always some work that needs to get done. There's always somebody who needs to be cared for. There's always,always,room for some love,and all of us,no matter how bitter our pasts,and no matter how wounded our hearts,can give our hearts and souls to engage in some good ol' loving. The fun way of course,in true U&I style ;).
I wanted to intern; I wanted to intern in an NGO; I wanted to intern in an NGO that was within an accessible and communicable geographical
space ; I wanted super-fun crowd ; I wanted an NGO who's policy was honesty ;I wanted flexi timings, yadayadayada...the list was never ending.
Needless to say, U&I fit my bill perfectly.
Question was,and still is:did I fit U&I's bill?
Well,I still don't know! I have never in my life seen an organisation and it's people so dynamically evolve. I have never in my life come across so much passion,
so much love,and so much energy in one place. When I joined U&I,what drove me to it may have been reasons I could list out in bullet points in my personal diary, but the change it has made in my life, and the change I know I have made in the lives of others, is far too pregnant with weight for words to contain. I first started out with teaching slum-dwelling boys from Doddigunta at the U&I office. They were noisy,were more interested in my love life than anything else,and drove me mad. They also made me see the mind - boggling amounts of potential each and every one of them was brimming with,and that drove me to want to make something out of them. Today,I work with slum-dwelling girls from Doddigunta. Predictably enough, for obvious socio-economical reasons,they are far lesser in number. It also means that they do not receive as much encouragement to study,and have far lesser incentives to intellectually and academically further their horizons,making it more of a challenge for me to teach. But you know what I see in each and every one of these girls? I see possibilities. Given where they come from,and given their little academic escapades from their squalid reality, the possibilities in their future are endless. They could either become somebodies/exceptions from what is predicted of their future,or they could be washed away to become victims of their own fate,and not conversely, its victors. Yes I am teaching them Spoken English today,and that is a sure-shot tool to uplift them,albeit a little higher,from their current state, but my main aim is to make real women out of them. Strong, independent, and empowered women. Women who will be change-makers and history makers.
Whenever I meet people working with U&I,I see the same dreams and hopes in their eyes for whichever section of people they may be working with. I sense not just their aspirations and energy, but above all else,their Hope. I also know that this isn't the passive sort of hope,but the one that strives, strives, and never yields. The one that fights the good fight. This same hope is the one that drives me,and I see that regardless of the numerous constraints all of us may have,there is always room to make a difference. There's always need for a helping hand. There's always some work that needs to get done. There's always somebody who needs to be cared for. There's always,always,room for some love,and all of us,no matter how bitter our pasts,and no matter how wounded our hearts,can give our hearts and souls to engage in some good ol' loving. The fun way of course,in true U&I style ;).
Tuesday, October 18, 2011
VOTE to VOlunTEer story - Sudarshan T
"When a person really desires something, all the universe conspires to help that person to realize his dream."
- Early 2011, my core was shaken & my heart was broken... Everything about me was in disarray & I was lost in an abyss where loneliness, depression, fear were my companions (to name a few)... I smiled to hide my inner reality but my SELF & its worth was at stake... By nature I was unto others as others were unto me, but deep within I wanted to be a volunteer... For many months I had searched the net, googling all the time, many calls were made to many phone numbers but then I was unable to connect the energy of the voice on the other end to the Cause they represented. I was disappointed and as days went by, my desire to be what I sought grew stronger...
- One day at work, in my random searches, I landed on a page in ngopost.org... that post, my 1st till then that drew me towards reading it again... Something within made me pick up my mobile, walk out of the office and call the only number that was there on the post... I guess that was the turning point when "I Voted myself to Be - Volunteer"...
The voice on the other side of the call was warm, unassuming and full of energy to the Cause which he represented... He introduced himself as Ajit and told me that the NGO wasU&I... The warm, friendly & welcoming conversation we had was the beginning of what I believe is a long, unending journey on the path of social change & the spirit of being a Volunteer...
- The moments I am associated with the cause, each & every Sunday I was at the Govt. home I have felt more Alive than before... The unassuming smile, hug given by the boys of the govt. home, the time spent with them and to see that what little contribution I was able to make brought in joy on their faces are priceless... Just that was enough to dissolve my past and I fondly consider all the boys as my Own... My own blood & brethren. I rediscovered my own Smile :)
- In my association with U&I I have even made some good friends... Ajit, Satish, Abhishikth John, Esther Priyanka,Kaustubh Kau, John Pavan, Suresh Babu G ... to name a few (others still not in my fb list)...
- ("Volunteer" - I believe for me is a way of life, a way of being, a way to truly smile from the heart seeing & feeling the sustained Smile in an Other - everyone deserves to Smile & feel the miracle of the power of unconditional Love).
- To those who are on the fence of "To Be or Not To Be"... I AM A VOLUNTEER... ARE YOU???
Tuesday, September 13, 2011
Monday, August 8, 2011
Monday, July 25, 2011
Her - Divya David
Fell in love.
Eloped.
Crossed the border from Bangladesh into India.
New Beginnings.
Hope-filled eyes.
Into Howrah station in noisy Kolkata.
Up in a lodge.
Just him and her.
Nothing else mattered
Until tomorrow
When he would force her
Wear these clothes!
--These!?
Do it now!
--I wont!
Into an abyss of darknesss.
Eyes wide open!
Men!
What're they doing!?
Beatings.
Screams.
Tears.
Blood.
The harsh sting of betrayal...
And the bitter....
Oh the bitter taste of pain.
This is the story of a girl we met at the Government Home for Women at Risk.which houses many women just like her.
Some have children,the youngest mother being a 12-year old.
Some were victims of human trafficking,rape,abuse....some have run away from home,and some are mentally challenged.
Come join us this Friday and Saturday from 10am to 1pm for a 2-Day Summer Camp.
U&I,we believe, can truly make a difference.
As Emily Dickenson once wrote-
"If I can stop one Heart from breaking
I shall not live in vain
If I can ease one Life the Aching
Or cool one Pain
Or help one fainting Robin
Unto his Nest again
I shall not live in Vain."
So spread the word,and call +91-9916064516 for more details =)
Show some Love, it's all they need - Shivang Ram
Here we are again trying to bring colour into their lives. We are one. We need to make them feel like they belong. The happiness in their eyes when someone shows love to them, when someone cares for them, is a source of immense joy to us. We make them enjoy the few moments they have with us. In this period of time, we are doing nothing but trying to understand each other. It’s giving and only giving in this kind of world. There is no distinction between them and us. We're being human.
Let us touch the dying, the poor, the lonely and the unwanted according to the graces we have received and let us not be ashamed or slow to do the humble work. – Mother Theresa.
She is the perfect example of a person who gave love without wanting any of it back for herself.
We are, in some sense, doing the same thing.
Still wondering what I am talking about? Well, it’s a NGO called U&I and we’re organizing summer camps for them. Men and women who are mentally challenged, domestically abused and what not. Come join us and support the cause.Justice for all. Join in this Friday and Saturday. Show the love. Also, bring your friends along. Make new friends, have fun.
Venue: Government Home for Boys and Girls, Dairy Circle(Next to NIMHANS)
Contact me for further information. :) Hope to see you there.
Thursday, April 21, 2011
Tuesday, March 29, 2011
A Pocketful of Dreams
A Pocketful of Dreams tells the story of a boy who has a dream. The story revolves around Ranjit and his dreams of being a software engineer someday. With a bright smile and a smart suit, Ranjith plays CEO for a day at a software company in Bangalore. Directed by UK based Film maker Luke Halls and Photographer Mark Sherratt and produced by U&I (a Bangalore based NGO) the film is an initiative to raise awareness,and help Ranjith and many other children like him see their dreams come true.
The premiere, which was held on the first of November 2010, was used to raise funds for an education project for underprivileged children called Seeds. Seeds is a project run by TJR in partnership with Oasis.It aims to provide the education and training needed to help these children become employable and get better paying jobs. The event also featured Music by RJ Saggy and the CK band, a dance performance by the Oasis community crew,and a talk by Steve Chalke, founder of Stop the Traffik.
7 Days of Justice!
“U & I can make a difference” is a mantra we have been chanting from day one. During the 7 days of justice, we got a glimpse of the extent to which we can make a difference together, and as always it blew our minds! We set out to complete four projects - make a short film with the Oasis boys, give the Government Home a complete makeover and to help Auto Raja & PROvision Asia with the incredible work they are doing. The U&I team along with some volunteers from the UK set out the make the Justice week happen.
Day 1 started with a video shoot with the English Class boys from Oasis. We interviewed each one of them asking them about their dreams and aspirations. It was interesting to see life through their eyes. Lives that have probably seen a greater struggle than we ever have. A life where football is almost a religion and nothing can be more exciting than that pair of football shoes! The dreams these kids have are not very different from ours - they want to be CEO’s, engineers, pilots and football players. On Day 4 we took Ranjit (one of the boys ) for a day trip to ‘Think3’ (a software company) were he got to play CEO for a day.
Day 2 and 3 were days of a lot of hard work and also a lot of fulfilment for everyone who was a part of it. The plan was to give the Government home a complete makeover! Our amazing volunteers painted, cleaned, scrubbed and washed and brought a little bit of heaven down on earth for the boys. We also had medical professionals look at the boys individually and administer medical care. “We made sure we gave as much support, education and training to those volunteers who would be able to continue with the treatment plans we’d started”, said Matthew Brierley, an osteopath from our UK team. By the end of the two days we were surprised at the change we saw in the Home! “Looking back at how the Government Home was when I first came here a year ago, and how it’s magically transformed now, just leaves me in awe”, said Gina, a regular volunteer with U&I.
Day 4 began with a 6 am football game where some of our volunteers played football with the kids from the Doddigunta community. This was followed by a day long shoot with our very own heroes from English class - Ranjit and Shrinivas. From shooting at a slum to running around Commercial Street holding up traffic, this day was definitely tough yet exciting. “It was hard work, but sooo much fun as well.” said Mark Sherratt, professional photographer. “We filmed in some really interesting places that I would never normally go to,” he continued, “including slums, shops and offices and it was great fun working with the U&I crew.” We dressed up the boys, and took them to the Think3 office that afternoon. At the office, Ranjit had a chance to sit in the CEO’s cabin, sign a cheque, preside over a board meeting and much more! At the same time, we had another team at the ‘Home of Hope’, spending time with the people there and encouraging ‘Auto Raja’ with the incredible work he has been doing. Raja runs an organization dedicated to rescuing and rebuilding the lives of the destitute and dying people on the streets.
On Day 5 we started out early again to finish the last bit of the shoot at Ranjit’s house. It was great to meet and speak with his family as well. The rest of the day was spent again at ‘Home of Hope’, spending time with people, providing medical aid and just making them smile =) “I learn’t a lot” said Naveen Mahenderan, a regular volunteer with U&I, “ I really enjoyed helping the doctors as well. These were the 7 best days of my life” he added.
Day 6 was spent on the finishing touches at the Government Home.The team finished up the painting and cleaning. It was truly a job well done! “Despite the often smelly and dirty conditions we were working in, it was an amazing and moving experience, and the chance to help so many people was a privilege.” said Matthew.
On day 7 we visited PROvision Asia, an NGO that helps the disabled by providing free mobility aids such as wheelchairs and walkers. We spent time with the staff at the office helping them with their business plan, helping the patients, and doing some photography for them as well. We spent the afternoon visiting many of the homes of the people who PROvision Asia helps, most of which were in the local slums. It was great to be involved and help PROvision Asia in the wonderful work they are doing for the disabled.
The ‘7 Days of Justice’ would have been impossible without our brilliant volunteers who gave their time and worked incredibly hard to make this event happen. We really appreciate the people who contributed and supported us through it all and we know that none of this would have happened without them. We owe it all to them!
We now truly know that U&I can make a difference in our world. Those were indeed 7 days well spent.
“And God saw that it was very good.”
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